10 Signs That it's Time to Get Help for Depression

Depression can often be misunderstood or overlooked, especially when the symptoms are mistaken for normal sadness or stress. However, recognizing the signs early can make a significant difference in getting the help you need. Here are ten key signs to watch for:

1. Persistent Hopelessness

Feeling unrelenting hopelessness, frustration, or sadness can be a hallmark of depression. If you find it hard to see beyond the pain or feel a lack of incentive to move forward, it may be time to seek support.

2. Trouble Concentrating

Difficulty focusing, making decisions, or staying productive could indicate more than just a bad day. Depression often affects cognitive abilities, leading to mistakes at work or in daily responsibilities.

3. Unexplained Physical Pain

Did you know depression can manifest physically? Chronic aches, joint pain, or other unexplained discomforts might be linked to your mental health.

4. Loss of Interest in Hobbies

If activities you once loved no longer bring you joy, it could be a sign of apathy caused by depression. This loss of pleasure in daily life is a big red flag.

5. Substance Abuse

Using alcohol or drugs to cope with emotional pain is a common sign. Depression and substance abuse often go hand in hand, creating a cycle that can be hard to break without help.

6. Changes in Sleep Patterns

Both insomnia and oversleeping can be symptoms of depression. Sleep disturbances often exacerbate mood fluctuations.

7. Appetite and Weight Shifts

Sudden changes in appetite—whether overeating or losing interest in food—can signal depression.

8. Irritability and Mood Swings

Heightened irritability or agitation over seemingly minor issues might indicate underlying depression. These mood shifts can sometimes escalate to thoughts of self-harm or harm toward others.

9. Feelings of Worthlessness or Guilt

Excessive guilt or feelings of inadequacy are common in depression. These thoughts can spiral into a cycle of negativity, making it crucial to address them early.

10. Thoughts of Death or Suicide

If you’re experiencing persistent thoughts of self-harm, suicide, or death, it’s essential to seek immediate help. These thoughts are serious and require the support of a mental health professional.

Why Early Intervention Matters

At Strength in Heart Counselling we understand how challenging it can be to identify and address depression. Our team of compassionate counsellors in Victoria, BC, Cobble Hill, BC, and virtual online are here to provide personalized, holistic support tailored to your needs. To read about our approach to depression therapy please read this.

Take the First Step Today! If you or someone you know is experiencing these signs, don’t hesitate to reach out. Strength in Heart offers a free 20-minute intake consultation to help you explore your options and take the first step toward recovery.


Break Free from Gaslighting: We Can Help.

Gaslighting is a subtle yet harmful form of emotional abuse that can leave you doubting your own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions. At Strength in Heart Counselling in Victoria, BC, Cobble Hill, BC and virtual online across BC, we understand how gaslighting can affect mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. Our team of Masters level counsellors is here to help you identify and overcome the effects of gaslighting, empowering you to rebuild self-confidence and trust in your inner voice. Money shouldn’t be a barrier to you mental wellness so we also offer low fee counselling for those who need it.

What Is Gaslighting?

Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic where one person causes another to question their reality, memories, or emotions. It often involves phrases like:

  • “You’re overreacting.”

  • “I never said that.”

  • “Why are you so defensive all the time?”

These techniques undermine self-confidence, leaving you feeling confused, anxious, and even questioning your own sanity.

Techniques of Gaslighting

The infographic above highlights some common gaslighting techniques:

  1. Countering: Shifting focus to question the victim’s memory.

  2. Denial: Pretending events never occurred or promises were never made.

  3. Trivializing: Belittling the victim’s feelings or concerns.

  4. Withholding: Refusing to engage or answer questions.

  5. Blocking/Diverting: Distracting by challenging the victim’s credibility.

Signs of Gaslighting

  • Feeling hopeless, joyless, or worthless.

  • Constantly second-guessing yourself.

  • Becoming withdrawn or unsocial.

  • Frequently apologizing to the abusive person.

  • Difficulty making decisions.

  • Defending the abuser’s behavior to others.

How Strength in Heart Counselling Can Help

Our team of Masters level counsellors will provide a safe, supportive therapeutic container where you can heal and grow without fear of judgement. Whether you need a safe space to talk or you want to dig deep to explore and re-calibrate patterns - we are here for you and will meet you where you are.

Some of the therapy approaches that might use to support you include:

  • Trauma-Informed Therapy: Identify and address the impact of gaslighting on your mental health.

  • Self-Empowerment Techniques: Rebuild your confidence and trust in your intuition.

  • Mindfulness-Based Approaches: Practice grounding techniques to stay connected to your reality.

  • Couples Counselling: Whether you’re looking to strengthen your bond, navigate conflict, or transition through separation, our couples counselling service provides a safe, supportive space to help you & your partner move forward.

  • Compassionate Inquiry, Inner Child Work, and more.

Why Choose Strength in Heart Counselling?

  • Compassionate Care: Our personalized, holistic approach ensures every session is tailored to your unique needs.

  • Flexible Options: We offer in-person counselling in Victoria, BC, and Cobble Hill, Cowichan Valley, as well as online virtual therapy for your convenience.

  • Affordable Rates: Low fee counselling available with sliding scale options and a free 20-minute intake consultation.

Take the First Step Toward Healing

If you’ve experienced gaslighting or emotional abuse, taking the first step toward healing can feel overwhelming—but you don’t have to do it alone. At Strength in Heart Counselling in Victoria, BC, Cobble Hill, BC and virtual online across BC, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Book your free consultation today to connect with one of our experienced counsellors and begin your journey toward empowerment and self-discovery.

🌟 Counsellor Spotlight: Meet Scarlet Jaxen, MSW, RSW – Now Accepting New Counselling Clients in Victoria, BC!

 

Scarlet Jaxen, MSW, RSW

 

We’re excited to introduce Scarlet Jaxen, MSW, RSW, the newest counsellor to join our team at Strength in Heart Counselling in Victoria, BC! With over 15 years of experience as a clinical social worker, Scarlet brings a unique and transformative approach to therapy, blending ancient wisdom with modern science to support healing and personal growth.

Scarlet’s Approach to Counselling

Scarlet’s therapeutic style is deeply intuitive, relational, and justice-oriented. She is passionate about helping clients navigate life’s challenges, including:

  • Crisis and conflict resolution

  • Major life transitions

  • Trauma healing and recovery

  • Personal growth and self-expression

Using evidence-based methods like Internal Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Scarlet creates a safe and empowering space for clients to redefine their past and build a fulfilling future. Her client-centered approach ensures that each session moves at a pace that feels right for you.

Why Work with Scarlet?

Scarlet’s dedication to her clients goes beyond addressing symptoms—she focuses on uncovering the root causes of distress to inspire meaningful and lasting transformation. Whether you’re seeking support for anxiety, depression, trauma, or navigating life’s transitions, Scarlet is here to walk alongside you on your path toward healing.

Now Accepting New Clients!

Scarlet is currently welcoming new clients for both in-office sessions at our Victoria counselling location and virtual counselling sessions.

📍 Location: 1183 Fort Street, Victoria, BC
💻 Virtual Therapy: Available for clients across BC
Rates: Starting at $160 per session, with sliding scale options available. Extended Health Plan coverage may be available. Scarlet is a Registered Social Worker (RSW) which is considered a health profession by the CRA and can be claimed as a health expense on your income tax.
🎉 Free 20-Minute Intake Consultation: Get to know Scarlet and explore how counselling can support you

Book Your Session Today

Are you ready to take the next step in your healing journey? Book a session with Scarlet today and experience the transformative power of counselling.

🔗 Learn more about Scarlet here
📅 Book your session now

At Strength in Heart Counselling, we’re here to support you every step of the way. Whether you’re seeking in-office or virtual therapy, our team of compassionate counsellors is ready to guide you toward growth, healing, and self-discovery.

Feeling Tense or Low Energy? Your Body Might Be Holding Onto Stress

Are you feeling constantly drained or tense, maybe even when you’re trying to relax? Your body might be keeping the score of unresolved stress or trauma. Inspired by the groundbreaking work of Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of the New York Times bestseller The Body Keeps the Score, we explore how stress and trauma can impact your mind and body—and what you can do to heal.

How Stress and Trauma Affect Your Body

Dr. van der Kolk’s research found that prolonged stress and suppressed emotions can lead to trauma, which manifests in both physical and emotional ways. Over time, these unresolved feelings can negatively impact your health, contributing to issues like chronic pain, fatigue, and emotional dysregulation.

By addressing suppressed emotions through mindfulness and therapeutic practices like yoga or counselling, you can begin to release these traumas from your body, restoring balance and well-being.

Signs Your Body is Holding Onto Stress

Your body may send signals when unresolved emotions or trauma are present. Here are some common signs:

  • Physical Symptoms: Chronic pain, muscle tension, digestive issues, fatigue, or insomnia.

  • Emotional Reactions: Mood swings, emotional numbness, excessive anxiety, or feeling easily overwhelmed.

  • Behavioral Patterns: Avoidance, substance use, hypervigilance, or difficulty building intimacy.

  • Relationship Struggles: Trust issues, communication problems, or feeling disconnected from loved ones.

Why Support Matters

Healing is not always a solo journey. Whether it’s through family, friends, support groups, or counselling, healthy attachments play a vital role in recovery. Counselling offers a safe space to process emotions, confront trauma, and prevent future physical health issues caused by unresolved stress.

Steps to Start Healing

If you recognize these signs in yourself, here’s how you can take action:

  1. Seek Professional Help: Work with a trauma-informed counsellor who specializes in approaches like somatic experiencing to process and release stored trauma.

  2. Practice Mindfulness: Engage in meditation, deep breathing, or body scans to connect with your physical and emotional state.

  3. Stay Active: Physical activity can help release tension and improve overall well-being.

  4. Adopt Healthy Habits: Prioritize good sleep, balanced nutrition, and effective stress management techniques.

At Strength in Heart Counselling in Victoria, BC and Cowichan Valley, BC, we specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families heal from stress, anxiety, trauma, and more. Our holistic, client-centered approach will empower you to address both symptoms and root causes for lasting transformation.

Book a Session Today

Don’t let stress take control of your life. Take the first step toward healing by booking a counselling session with one of our experienced counsellors. We offer in-office and virtual sessions, with flexible payment options and a free 20-minute intake consultation.

📍 Two counselling office locations: 1183 Fort Street, Victoria, BC & 1400 Cowichan Bay Road, Cobble Hill, BC
💻 Virtual counselling also available throughout Canada
✨ Rates start at $70 per session, with sliding scale options

Click below to book your session to start your journey to a healthier, more balanced life.

Burnout Signs That You’re Ignoring ⚠️

Burnout doesn’t happen overnight. It sneaks up on you.

Here are some hints that you might be running on empty:
⚠️ Small tasks feel overwhelming
⚠️ You’re always exhausted (even after sleep)
⚠️ You’ve lost passion for things you once loved
⚠️ Everything irritates you

If these hints sound familiar then this post is for you!

If the signs of burnout are ignored your body will inevitably say “No” and force you to rest, potentially beginning a painful cycle of burnout and rest. According to Gabor Mate in his book “When the Body Says No - The Cost of Hidden Stress”:

“The body’s hormonal system is inextricably linked with the brain centres where emotions are experienced and interpreted. In turn, the hormonal apparatus and the emotional centres are interconnected with the immune system and the nervous system. These are not four separate systems, but one
super-system that functions as a unit to protect the body from external invasion and from disturbances to the internal physiological condition. It is
impossible for any stressful stimulus, chronic or acute, to act on only one part of the super-system. What happens to one will affect all”.

….

“It may seem paradoxical to claim that stress, a physiological mechanism vital to life, is a cause of illness. To resolve this apparent contradiction, we must differentiate between acute stress and chronic stress. Acute stress is the immediate, short-term body response to threat. Chronic stress is activation of the stress mechanisms over long periods of time when a person is exposed to stressors that cannot be escaped either because she does not recognize them or because she has no control over them. Discharges of nervous system, hormonal output and immune changes constitute the flight-or-fight reactions that help us survive immediate danger. These biological responses are adaptive in the emergencies for which nature designed them. But the same stress responses, triggered chronically and without resolution, produce harm and even permanent damage. Chronically high cortisol levels destroy tissue. Chronically elevated adrenalin levels raise the blood pressure and damage the heart. There is extensive documentation of the inhibiting effect of chronic stress on the immune system.”

Listen to the signs of burnout. Our counsellors in Victoria, BC & Cobble Hill, BC will support you to navigate the signs of burnout - before your body says “No”!

Affordable counselling rates from $35 per 1 hour session.

What No One Tells You About Counselling…

1. It's Not Just About Talking

While conversation can be a big part of the counselling process, it often involves much more than just talking and rationalizing. Counselling approaches such as mindfulness, breath work, Compassionate Inquiry, Internal Family Systems, and even in some cases psychedelic integration can be used to dig deeper into one’s emotional landscape - to places where more long term re-calibration can begin to happen! At Strength in Heart, we value a more holistic approach which means that we address the roots and underlying causes of mental health concerns, not only the symptoms.

2. It's a Collaborative Journey

Counselling at Strength in Heart is a collaborative journey between you and your counsellor. The two of you will work together to set goals and create a custom treatment plan that will work best for your specific needs. You are the expert of your own life and your counsellor will empower you to tap into your own inner healing intelligence.

3. Limits to Confidentiality

One of the biggest concerns people have with their health information is privacy. We use HIPAA-approved video platforms for virtual sessions, ensuring the maintenance of your privacy and confidentiality. There are some exceptions to confidentiality which are important for you to be aware of. Please inform yourself by reading this detailed explanation of limits to confidentiality in counselling.

4. It's Not Just for Crisis Situations

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While counselling is often an important part of crisis intervention, it’s also helpful for personal growth, stress management, improving relationships and so on. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, past trauma, or simply want to enhance your emotional well-being, counselling can provide valuable insights and tools to support you.

5. The First Session is Only the Beginning

The initial session is often about getting to know each other and understanding your needs. It’s a chance for you to see if the counsellor is the right fit for you. At Strength in Heart, most of our counsellors offer a free 20-minute intake virtual consultation to help you make this decision.

6. It's Okay to Switch Counsellors

Finding the right counsellor is extremely important. If you feel that your current counsellor isn’t the right fit, or you’re interested in an approach that someone else on the team specializes in, it’s totally okay to switch. Our team is diverse, ensuring you can find someone who resonates with your needs. If you would like to be matched with a counsellor on our team, or switch to another counsellor please fill out this form and our office staff will reach out to you.

7. It's a Self Investment

Counselling is an investment in your mental health and overall well-being - it’s good for your sense of self worth! While it may require time and financial resources, you’re worth it! With sliding scale options and affordable rates starting at $35 per session, we strive to make counselling accessible to everyone.

8. It Can Be Life-Changing

Counselling can have a profound impact on your life and relationships. It can change the way you view yourself, your relationships, and the world around you - which can be difficult as well as rewarding!

At Strength in Heart Counselling in Victoria, BC, and Cobble Hill, BC, we are committed to provide personalized, holistic counselling services. Whether you’re seeking individual, couples, or family therapy, our team is here to support you on your journey to healing and growth.

Counselling is a personal journey and finding the right fit is essential. We make it our priority to help you get a counsellor who gets you! Connect with us - your path to healing and empowerment is just a conversation away.

Our Cobble Hill Counselling Office is Now Accepting New Clients!

Our Locations:

#37-1400 Cowichan Bay Road, Cobble Hill, BC V0R 1L3

1183 Fort Street, Victoria, BC V8V 1L3

Currently our counsellors Adria & Carla are available for virtual or in office counselling sessions in Cobble Hill, BC.

#37-1400 Cowichan Bay Road, Cobble Hill, BC V0R 1L3

Adria Lipsett, MA (Cand.)

($70 per 50 minute session)

Sliding scale rates also available.

Carla Leuschen, MPA, MSW, RSW

($180 per 50 minute session)

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Healing Through Connection: Exploring Shadow Work, Inner Child Healing & Compassionate Inquiry

At Strength in Heart Counselling we believe in the transformative power of connection—both with oneself and with others. Our holistic approach to therapy integrates many various modalities, but in this article we focus on some of the more connective approaches such as Shadow Work, Inner Child Healing, and Compassionate Inquiry,

Discovering Shadow Work

Rooted in the insights of Carl Jung, Shadow Work involves exploring the unconscious parts of ourselves. By confronting these hidden aspects, we create space for understanding and integration, allowing us to embrace our whole selves. This process is essential for personal growth, as it helps uncover the underlying beliefs and emotions that shape our behaviors and choices.

Nurturing the Inner Child

This approach focuses on connecting with the younger parts of yourself that may have experienced trauma or neglect. By reflecting on past experiences, we help soothe your inner child, enabling you to respond to challenges as an empowered adult rather than from a place of past hurt. This healing journey allows you to release negative emotions and cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself.

Embracing Compassionate Inquiry

Led by the principles of Gabor Maté, Compassionate Inquiry is a powerful technique that uncovers the layers of your consciousness. This method helps you to identify self-limiting beliefs and forgotten memories, fostering a deeper connection between mind and body. Through this exploration, you can liberate yourself from unconscious patterns and embrace a more authentic version of yourself.

Tailored Support for Your Journey

At Strength in Heart Counseling, we understand that every individual’s journey is unique. Our skilled therapists work collaboratively with you, adapting therapeutic techniques to meet your specific needs. We recognize that you are the expert of your own experiences, and we are here to walk alongside you as you navigate your path to healing.

Start Your Healing Journey Today

If you’re ready to explore the depths of your inner world and forge a path toward healing and growth, we are here to support you. Together, we will unlock your potential and create a new empowered narrative where you can live more fully and authentically.

Connect with us today to learn more about our services and begin your journey to self-discovery and healing!

September News & October Workshops Open for Registration

As we shift into fall we would like to share some exciting Strength in Heart and Higher Growth updates!

1. New Counsellors & Sliding Scale Availability:  If you need support please don't let financial concerns hold you back from connecting with us. Sliding scale counselling rates are available again with several of our counsellors. Please read on to see the profiles of our currently available counsellors. If you have questions or would like to be matched with a counsellor, please book a free 20 minute virtual consultation with our intake counsellor Adria here

2. Our next in office Cannabis Assisted Breathwork Group Session is on October 27th, 2024 (cannabis optional; max.6 participants with 2 counsellor facilitators). This group session is open to anyone interested in the power of non-ordinary state healing. The workshop includes 2 hours of preparation and integration plus the 4 hour in office session (total 6 hours with a psychedelic integration counsellor). You can find more information here. Limited spots are available, please email us at admin@strengthinheart.ca to confirm your registration! 

3. Psychedelic Preparation & Integration Group - Navigate Your Inner Landscape (6 weeks, beginning Oct 28th from 5:00 to 6:30 PM PST): Early Early Bird Rate - $99 (Before Sept 27th; Reg. $249). Our popular Psychedelic Preparation 6 Week Group is back for the 9th time! This comprehensive 6-week program offers a holistic approach to educate and prepare you for profound psychedelic experiences. Join our community for education, shared insights, and practical tools to enhance your transformative journey.

If you are already an alumni of our 6 week course please remember that you are welcome to take the course over as many times as you like - each time is a bit different as we continue to learn more about this emerging field!

Also, alumni please contact us to signup for our next Re-Connect Integration Circle & Social Tea on Sunday November  3rd (due to space spots are limited to 15).

If you have any questions about any of our services or offerings please don't hesitate to connect with us!


Wishing you success, well-being, and fulfillment on your path forward!

Carla Mae Leuschen



Counsellors Accepting New Clients:

Several of our counsellors are now welcoming new clients. Whether you're seeking support for personal growth, mental health challenges or relationship issues, we are here to guide you on your journey to healing.

To learn more about each counsellor please click on their name link under their picture.
 

Individual, Couples & Family Counsellor:

Sally Stuike, MACP, RCC

 
 

(Virtual & In Office Sessions)

I will work with you in a gentle & compassionate way to identify actions, reactions, & behaviours that may have once served you, but are now impacting your life in unhelpful ways. We will explore your unique experiences & find ways to help you feel complete, at peace, & strong. I will support you to explore your power & potential, as well as to find a sense of calm in your world & relationships.


Affordable & Sliding Scale COunselling:

 
 
 
 

AVAILABLE Individual Session Counsellors:

 
 

Jenni Fehr, RSW  
(Virtual & In Office Sessions)

I will assist you to connect with your innate healing nature through a collaborative process of sharing, reflecting, receiving, & remembering. Together we will draw on diverse healing practices to restore your sense of worth, belonging, & wholeness. My goal is to empower you to navigate life’s complexities with authenticity & resilience.

 
 
 

Alanna Orriss, RCC  
(Virtual & In Office Sessions)


I work collaboratively with individuals on their path toward healing & growth, empowering them to make positive changes in their lives. My approach is holistic; weaving together the mental, emotional, relational & spiritual domains to improve overall wellbeing. I have a special interest in helping clients to understand & integrate the insights obtained from plant medicine & other psycho-spiritual experiences.

 
 

Mischa Greig, MA, RCC
(Virtual & In Office Sessions)


My approach is collaborative, experiential, embodied, & founded on the understanding that the client is the expert of their life. My role is to facilitate greater self-inquiry and deeper self-knowing. I aim to help folks deconstruct any stories that presume inadequacy while promoting self-determination in the therapeutic space.

 
 

Yvonne Paquette, BSW, MSW, RSW
(Virtual Sessions Only)


With a commitment to non-judgement & the messiness of learning & healing, I will support you to discover & work with your truths, blocks, strengths, needs & desires to create a more fulfilled life.

 
 

Aja Egglestone, Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC)
BScN, BKin, MACP

(Virtual Sessions Only)

I will support you to heal your mind, body & soul through toward self-discovery & personal transformation. My work is guided by the belief that you can transform your life from the inside out by bringing conscious awareness to unconscious aspects of yourself.  


Office Tour

We offer both virtual & in office counselling sessions. If you haven't checked out our Victoria office space at 1183 Fort Street yet, here is a virtual tour!


Psychedelic Integration

Strength in Heart has specialized in Psychedelic Integration since 2018. To learn more about which counsellors offer this service & what the service looks like please click here.
 

Our Next In Office Cannabis Assisted Breathwork Session - October 27th, 2024


 
 


Our partner Higher Growth Integration offers psychedelic education & preparation group programs. Registration is now open for the next 6 week program that starts October 28th (this is our 9th cohort!). For more details or to register please click here.

A 6-week online support structure & course led by experienced psychedelic integration therapists. This program is for anyone seeking information & guidance around how to minimize risks & maximize benefits when taking psychedelics in a controlled setting.

Those who participate in this course gain access to Higher Growth members only community events, workshops & retreats. 

Free unlimited access to the course! Once you sign up for this upcoming course, you will gain free access to all future online cohorts of the course (~5 offerings per year). This means that you can make up for missed sessions, refresh your knowledge or delve deeper into specific classes in subsequent cohorts. It's a great opportunity to reinforce your learning and stay up-to-date with the latest information.

ADHD & Psychedelics - What We Know

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, is getting a lot of attention right now. A few of the reasons contributing to this increased awareness are:

-   The increased availability of information becoming accessible to the general public via the internet

-   A movement of neurodiversity recognition and acceptance that is acting to reclaim this title and other neurodiversities. This de-stigmatization and normalization of neurodiversity is acting to help explain the ways in which different minds work to navigate the ever complex and challenging world we live in.

-   A shift in thinking in regards to gender and neurodiversity. Historically ADHD has been more commonly diagnosed in young boys. There is increasing recognition of the unique ways in which ADHD may manifest in individuals assigned female at birth resulting in a large uptick in women being diagnosed later in life.

What is ADHD?

The biomedical understanding of ADHD, according to the DSM-5, suggests it is a group of symptoms, including inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity that interferes with functioning and “normal” development. The DSM-5 acknowledges that there is a lot of unknowns when it comes to the causes of ADHD, but suggests there are genetic and environmental factors that alter the way neurotransmitters, specifically dopamine and norepinephrine, function in the brain to regulate attention, impulse control and executive function.

In "Scattered Minds," Gabor Maté presents a unique perspective on ADHD. Maté suggests that pathways in the brain responsible for emotional self-regulation and attention control fail to develop properly during infancy in individuals with ADHD. While he recognizes there may be some genetic factors at play, his understanding suggests that adverse childhood experiences, attachment wounds and early life encounters play a bigger role in the development of ADHD.

The treatment of ADHD. Could psychedelics play a role?

In the west, ADHD is commonly treated with stimulant medications. Many of these stimulants act on neurotransmitter pathways such as dopamine and norepinephrine which, among other things, are connected with our bodies reward and pleasure centers, motivation and drive, attention and focus, and mood regulation.  Unfortunately, stimulants, like many psychopharmaceutic drugs, come with side effects, including insomnia, headaches, low appetite, weight loss, increased heart rate, and blood pressure. This leads to the question: could psychedelics provide an alternative treatment for people with ADHD?

There have been relatively few studies on the effects of psychedelics on ADHD symptoms, but some interesting research and anecdotal evidence points to the possibility that microdosing, the practice of taking small, non-impairing doses on a semi-regular basis, of LSD or Psilocybin can reduce some of the symptoms of ADHD, and increase overall wellbeing.

In several studies on the effects of microdosing LSD or Psilocybin and experiences of ADHD, participants reported an increase in time management, ability to focus and sustain attention on tasks, emotional regulation, cognitive flexibility and a decreased anxiety. Astonishingly, after several weeks of microdosing, several participants no longer met the diagnostic criteria for ADHD at all.  

Research has also shown that macro doses of psychedelics, such as psilocybin, have the ability to increase neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to re-organize itself, create new connections and grow, for up to 3 months after taking the substance. This window of neuroplasticity, when accompanied by intentions and therapeutic support, may offer opportunities to re-imagine the way we engage with, and understand the world. Furthermore, the expanded state of consciousness, clarity and access to our inner healing intelligence that comes from engaging safely with psychedelic medicines may offer the opportunity to address attachment wounds and ways of being that were solidified in early life.  if we understand ADHD through the model that Gabor Maté proposes, this could have a potential to heal parts of ourselves that contribute to inattention, emotion dysregulation and impulsivity. By integrating the insights gained from psychedelic experiences, we might uncover deep-seated patterns and subconscious processes that underlie these symptoms. This exploration could lead to profound healing, fostering greater self-awareness and offering new strategies for managing ADHD symptoms from a place of understanding and self-compassion.

A few notes on safety:

If you have ADHD, and/or are taking stimulant medicines, and are planning on engaging with psychedelics, either therapeutically, recreationally or in the form of microdosing, consider these cautions noted by the Spirit Pharmacist:

-    Psychedelics are often described as ego diminishing medicines, while stimulants are ego stimulating. Another way of saying this is that psychedelics dissolve cognitive thinking to unlock emotional content, while stimulants enhance cognitive processes and focus. The counteracting psychological effects of these drugs may render psychedelics less useful, but the extent of this is largely unknown.

-    Stimulants may intensify the effects of psychedelics, namely LSD.

-    There is an increased risk of cardiovascular events or seizures with MDMA or phenethylamine psychedelics (psychedelics that have stimulant properties) when taken with other stimulants.

-    At least 72 hours of stimulant fasting before interacting with psychedelics can limit drug interactions and reduce risk. For certain psychedelics like Ayahuasca, stimulants should be re-introduced at a lower dose and avoided for at least 48 hours after sitting with the medicine.  

In conclusion, more research is needed to fully understand the ways in which psychedelic medicines and psychedelic therapies could aid in the support of people with ADHD. The studies noted above are promising, but far from conclusive. It is important to note that the risks associated with psychedelics and drug interactions are greatly reduced with consultation and support by professionals such as The Spirit Pharmacist and a trained, experienced and compassionate psychedelic integration therapist to walk with you along your journey!

References:

Calder, A. E., & Hasler, G. (2023). Towards an understanding of psychedelic-induced neuroplasticity. Neuropsychopharmacology (New York, N.Y.), 48(1), 104–112. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41386-022-01389-z

DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition): American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (5th ed.). Author.

Haijen, E. C. H. M., Hurks, P. P. M., & Kuypers, K. P. C. (2021). Microdosing with psychedelics to self-medicate for ADHD symptoms in adults: A prospective naturalistic study. Journal of Psychopharmacology, 35(9), 925-934.

Haijen, E. C. H. M., Hurks, P. P. M., & Kuypers, K. P. C. (2024). Effects of psychedelic microdosing versus conventional ADHD medication use on emotion regulation, empathy, and ADHD symptoms in adults with severe ADHD symptoms: A naturalistic prospective comparison study. European Psychiatry, 67(1), e18. 

Maté, G. (1999). Scattered minds: A new look at the origins and healing of attention deficit disorder. Knopf Canada.

Blog post written by Kendra Shaw, MSW Student

 

Rediscovering Bicycle Day: A Journey into Psychedelic Exploration

Psychedelic Integration Victoria BC

As April 19th dawns upon us once again, it brings with it the annual celebration of Bicycle Day, a commemoration of a pivotal moment in psychedelic history. This day marks the transformative journey undertaken by Dr. Albert Hofmann in 1943 which forever altered our understanding of consciousness and perception.

Picture this: a serene spring day in Switzerland, where Dr. Hofmann, a Swiss chemist, embarks on a bicycle ride home. Little did he know that along his regular route home he would catapult into the realms of the extraordinary. On that fateful day, Hofmann had ingested a small amount of lysergic acid diethylamide, or LSD, a compound he had synthesized in his laboratory.

What followed was a kaleidoscopic odyssey of the mind. Vivid colors danced before his eyes, swirling patterns enveloped his senses, and time itself seemed to warp and weave around him. In a state he later described as both "pleasant and threatening," Hofmann found himself immersed in a dreamlike reality, teetering on the edge of the known and the unknown.

Hofmann’s experience ignited a spark of curiosity that would inspire generations to come. Bicycle Day has since evolved into a global celebration, attracting individuals and communities united by a shared appreciation of the potential of psychedelics. Beyond mere recreational indulgence, many view these substances as gateways to profound insights and transformative, potentially therapeutic experiences.

Yet, amidst the celebration of Bicycle Day, it is crucial to heed a note of caution. Psychedelics, with their profound capacity to alter consciousness, demand respect and mindfulness from those who partake. Responsible usage entails understanding the risks and benefits, cultivating intentions of growth and healing, and creating safe, supportive environments for exploration, possibly with the support of a psychedelic integration therapist.

Indeed, the allure of psychedelics lies not merely in their capacity to induce sensory spectacle, but in their potential to catalyze profound personal growth and understanding. Whether utilized for introspective journeys or therapeutic endeavors, they offer a unique lens through which to perceive the world and our place within it.

As we honor the legacy of Dr. Hofmann's discovery, we are reminded of the boundless depths of human curiosity and exploration. Bicycle Day serves as a testament to our innate capacity for transcendence, beckoning us to venture beyond the confines of ordinary perception and into the realms of the extraordinary. So, as we embark upon another Bicycle Day celebration, let us tread with reverence and wonder, mindful of the transformative power that lies within our grasp. For in the pursuit of understanding and self-discovery, the journey itself becomes the destination, and the possibilities are as infinite as the human imagination!

Revitalize Your Resilience: Cannabis-Assisted Breathwork Circle on May 5th

Are you seeking a transformative experience to enhance your well-being and resilience?

Our next Cannabis-Assisted Breathwork Circle will be on May 5th, 2024. Join us for a profound journey into the realms of consciousness and healing.

What is Cannabis-Assisted Breathwork?

Cannabis-assisted breathwork involves accessing non-ordinary states of consciousness in controlled therapeutic settings. This approach has demonstrated promising results in mitigating symptoms of post-traumatic stress and increasing overall well-being. Under the guidance of trained professionals, participants engage in intentional breathwork practices while supported by the therapeutic effects of cannabis.

What to Expect

Before the in-person session on May 5th, participants will attend a virtual group preparation meeting. This discussion covers important topics such as risks and benefits, self-care practices, confidentiality, and intention setting. The in-office session will last approximately four hours and follow a structured format:

  • Introductions and Orientation: Get acquainted with the space and fellow participants, review preparatory discussions, and address any questions or concerns.

  • Intention-Setting and Preparation: Engage in journaling, stretching, and setting intentions for the session.

  • Cannabis Ingestion: Consume cannabis in a supportive environment.

  • Guided Meditation: Enter a meditative state guided by experienced facilitators.

  • Music Set Journey: Embark on a transformative journey facilitated by carefully curated music.

  • Returning Guided Meditation: Transition back to ordinary consciousness with guided support.

  • Closure Integration: Reflect on the experience, engage in self-care practices, and journal insights.

What to Bring

Prepare for the session by bringing the following:

  • Water bottle

  • Eye covering

  • Yoga mat, blanket, and comfortable clothing

  • Optional bolster or pillow for added comfort

Workshop Includes

  • Initial virtual intake interview

  • Virtual group preparation meeting

  • In-person cannabis-assisted breathwork circle

  • Virtual group follow-up/integration meeting

Possible Experiences

Participants may encounter a range of experiences during the session, including:

  • Increased awareness of the physical body

  • Deep relaxation and trauma resolution

  • Enhanced introspection and emotional release

  • Heightened creativity and problem-solving

  • Spiritual and transpersonal insights

  • Development of a deeper sense of presence and purpose

Pricing

Take advantage of our early bird pricing:

  • Early-Early Bird: $165 (before April 13)

  • Early Bird: $185 (before April 20)

  • Regular: $210 (after April 20)

How to Apply

To join our Cannabis-Assisted Breathwork Circle, contact Carla at carla@strengthinheart.ca or complete the contact form below. We aim to respond to inquiries within 2-3 business days.

Conclusion

Invest in your well-being and resilience by participating in our transformative Cannabis-Assisted Breathwork Circle. Under the guidance of experienced facilitators, embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and personal growth. Don't miss this opportunity to revitalize your resilience and deepen your connection with yourself and the world around you. Join us on May 5th for an unforgettable experience.

Embrace Transformation: Our Team & Multifaceted Counselling Services at Strength in Heart

Embarking on a journey toward mental and emotional well-being is a profound and personal endeavor. At Strength in Heart, we are committed to provide a wide range of counselling services tailored to meet your unique needs. In this blog post, get to know our team and explore the various services that we offer to support you on your path to healing and growth.

Individual Counselling:

Our individual counselling services offer a confidential and empathetic space for self-reflection and personal development. Whether you're grappling with anxiety, depression, or life transitions, our experienced therapists are here to guide you toward resilience and self-discovery.

Couples and Family Counselling:

Strengthening relationships is at the heart of our practice. Our skilled couples and family counsellors create a safe environment to navigate communication challenges, foster understanding, and build stronger connections within your most important relationships.

Trauma Therapy:

Addressing the impact of trauma is a crucial step in the healing process. Our trauma therapists are trained to support individuals in processing and overcoming the effects of traumatic experiences, promoting resilience and empowerment.

Somatic Therapy:

Understanding the mind-body connection is fundamental to holistic well-being. Our somatic therapy focuses on embodied practices, helping you release physical tension, manage stress, and achieve overall balance in your mental health.

Psychedelic Integration Support:

For those exploring psychedelic experiences, our team provides dedicated integration support. We work with you to navigate and integrate the insights gained during these experiences, fostering a safe and supportive environment for personal transformation.

Cannabis Therapy and Psilocybin Therapy:

We recognize the therapeutic potential of cannabis and psilocybin. Our trained therapists offer support and guidance for individuals seeking therapeutic benefits from these substances, with a focus on mindful and intentional use.

Sex Therapy:

Sexual well-being is an integral aspect of overall health. Our sex therapists approach issues related to intimacy, desire, and communication with sensitivity and expertise, fostering a healthy and fulfilling sexual life.

Anxiety, Depression, and Grief Counselling:

Our team specializes in providing targeted support for those dealing with anxiety, depression, and grief. Through evidence-based approaches, we aim to help you navigate and overcome the challenges associated with these common mental health concerns.

We are committed to provide you with comprehensive counselling services tailored to your needs. Explore the possibilities with Strength in Heart – where our team's expertise and compassion come together to support you to create a brighter and healthier future.

-Strength in Heart: Nurturing Well-being, One Person at a Time.

Counselling in Victoria, BC

Overcome Relationship Struggles - Couples Counselling Spots Now Open - In Office & Virtual

We believe in fostering healthy relationships and providing the support needed to overcome challenges together. We are excited to announce a new addition to our team – a dedicated couples counsellor who is now available for both in-office and virtual sessions. Whether you prefer the comfort of your home or our office in Victoria BC for couples counselling, we are here to help you navigate the journey of love and connection.

Meet Our Couples Counsellor:

Sally Stuike (She, Her) MACP, RCC

Allow us to introduce Sally Stuike, our experienced and compassionate couples counsellor. Sally brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to Strength in Heart. Her commitment to helping couples thrive and build stronger connections is at the heart of her practice.

Why Choose Couples Counselling?

Relationships can face challenges, and seeking professional guidance can make a significant difference. Our couples counselling provides a safe and supportive space for partners to explore their feelings, improve communication, and work toward common goals. Whether you're dealing with communication issues, trust issues, or navigating major life transitions, we are here to assist you on your journey.

In-Office Sessions:

For those who prefer face-to-face interaction, our in-office sessions offer a warm and welcoming environment. Located at 1183 Fort Street in Victoria, BC, our comfortable and private counselling space is designed to facilitate open and honest conversations.

Virtual Sessions:

Recognizing the importance of accessibility, Strength in Heart also offers virtual counselling sessions. Conducted via secure and confidential video conferencing, virtual sessions provide the flexibility to engage in therapy from the comfort of your own space. No matter where you are, you can connect with us to work toward building a healthier, more connected relationship.

How to Get Started:

Getting started with couples counselling at Strength in Heart is easy. Simply email us at admin@strengthinheart.ca, or complete the contact form below to schedule an appointment. If you have any questions or concerns, please also feel free to reach out to us.

Investing in your relationship is a powerful and positive step toward a more fulfilling life together. At Strength in Heart, we are excited to offer couples the opportunity to strengthen their bonds with our support. Let us guide you on the path to a healthier and more connected relationship.

Take the first step today, and let Strength in Heart be a part of your journey toward lasting love and happiness.

-Strength in Heart: Nurturing Love, Building Connections.

Deciphering Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy: Beyond the Infographic.

Since I began to work as a Psychedelic Psychotherapist in 2018 the realm of psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy has undergone a transformative renaissance, with more and more research coming out in support of the effectiveness of substances such as psilocybin, MDMA, and LSD to treat depression, addiction, trauma and more. However, this resurgence of psychedelic psychotherapy has also come with a lot of misinformation and glamorization of the field. One of the potentially dangerous consequences of this is that many untrained and inexperienced practitioners enter the area of psychedelic psychotherapy with inadequate understanding of how to safely support a patient through psychedelic preparation, experience and follow-up integration. This also means that many people who seek psychedelic therapy are not being safely informed and may be hurt, or at the very least, receive less effective therapy than if they had been more appropriately informed and supported. At Strength in Heart Counselling and our partner Higher Growth Integration, we are experienced and passionate about supporting people to have the most safe and effective non-ordinary state journey possible. Based on all of this, I was pleased to see that the National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine (NICABM) recently created an infographic that aims to shed light on "How Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy Works". That being said, while the infographic highlights some positive aspects, I have concerns that some of the wording and information may actually further contribute to the glamorization and misinformation related to psychedelic psychotherapy.

Psychedelics and "Tolerance"

One of the statements in NICABM's infographic that warrants further exploration is the idea that individuals must "tolerate" psychedelics to benefit from them. While it's essential to understand the potential adverse effects and mental preparedness for psychedelic experiences, framing this as tolerance is misleading. In a clinical setting, patients are carefully prepared and guided not toward mere tolerance of their experience, but toward mindful navigation and acceptance of the material that arises. Psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy largely relies on the patient's inner healing intelligence and their willingness to delve deep into their psyche and confront challenging emotions, which is more than only "tolerating" the substance.

Are Psychedelics Inherently Healing?

The infographic also states that psychedelics are not inherently healing. This statement is somewhat contentious, as research and anecdotal evidence have demonstrated that some of these substances can have profound healing effects on their own, sometimes without any experiential component or psychotherapist support. That being said, from a safety and effectiveness/long term healing perspective it is important to have professional support when working with micro or macro doses of psychedelics, and the follow-up integration process has been found to be critical in the maintenance of long term positive outcomes. The longer term healing aspect often comes from the integration of the psychedelic experience into one's life through therapy.

The Importance of Psychotherapy in Psychedelic-Assisted THERAPY

One valuable takeaway from the NICABM infographic is the spotlight on psychotherapy's integral role in the process. Psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy is not about merely ingesting a substance and expecting miracles. It's a structured, guided journey, and the therapist's role is to provide safe support and guidance for the experience, help the patient make sense of the insights gained, and assist in integrating any pearls of wisdom into daily life.

Psychotherapy in this context is commonly referred to as "integration counselling," our specialty at Strength in Heart, and it plays a pivotal role in increasing the likelihood that the benefits of a psychedelic experience are sustained and life-transforming. This may include helping people to prepare for and navigate difficult experiences, examine the meaning of visual/somatic experiences, explore how to live from a newly recognized understanding or way of thinking, ground insights into meaningful behaviour change, and more.

Destigmatizing Psychedelic Psychotherapy

One of the most encouraging aspects of the NICABM infographic is its role in destigmatizing psychedelic psychotherapy. For too long, psychedelics have been unjustly cast as substances of abuse, rather than powerful tools for personal growth and healing. The growing acceptance of psychedelic-assisted therapy by reputable organizations and professionals is a promising sign of a shifting perspective.

Conclusion

While NICABM's infographic on "How Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy Works" raised some questions for me regarding its claims, it undeniably contributes to the ongoing conversation about this emerging field of therapy. Psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy is gaining recognition, respect, and legitimacy, and it is vital that we continue to study, refine, and adapt the approach to ensure that it provides safe and effective therapy for people suffering with mental health issues. As the stigma surrounding psychedelic therapy gradually dissipates, it opens the door to more research, acceptance, and innovation in the field. It encourages us to ask questions, refine our understanding, and continually improve the practices of psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, making it a more accessible and impactful option for those in need.

For more information on misinformation or dangerous thinking about psychedelics please read “Taking a Walk on the Dark Side” by Dr. Bruce Tobin.

 

Carla Mae Leuschen, MPA, MSW, RSW

 

Spooky Self-Care: Unmasking Your Inner Demons with Strength in Heart Counselling

As the leaves rustle and the air grows colder, Halloween is just around the corner, and it's the perfect time to discuss a topic that often remains hidden in the shadows – mental health. At Strength in Heart Counselling, we believe that Halloween isn't just about costumes and candy (although we love both!); it's also a fantastic opportunity to explore the spooky side of self-care and confront the inner demons that may be haunting your mental well-being.

The Scary Truth About Mental Health

Let's start with the scary truth: mental health challenges are common, and they can affect anyone. Just like the monsters and ghouls that come out on Halloween night, our inner demons can take many forms – anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress.

The Mask We Wear

Halloween is a time when people might wear masks and costumes, but it's not just on this day. Many of us wear masks in our everyday lives to hide our true feelings and vulnerabilities. Sometimes it helps to take off your metaphorical mask, be authentic, and share your feelings with trusted friends, family, or a counsellor. It's okay to be yourself, even when it feels scary.

Confronting Your Fears

Halloween is all about facing fears, and the same principle can be applied to your mental health journey. Together with a skilled counsellor, you can confront your fears, explore your past, and work through the issues that have been lurking in the dark corners of your mind. Just like vanquishing monsters, facing your inner demons can be empowering.

Haunted by the Past

Sometimes, we're haunted by the ghosts of our past experiences. Strength in Heart Counseling offers a safe and supportive environment for you to explore these haunting memories. With guidance and therapy, you can find closure, heal old wounds, and move forward with a lighter heart.

Creating a Ritual of Self-Care

Halloween rituals are fun and sometimes spooky, but they also emphasize the importance of tradition and self-care. In the realm of mental health, self-care rituals can be just as transformative. Engage in activities that soothe your soul – whether it's journaling, meditation, art therapy, or simply taking a long walk in nature. Establishing a self-care routine is a powerful way to nourish your inner strength.

Embracing the Dark and Light

Halloween celebrates the balance between dark and light. Similarly, mental health journeys are not all gloom; there are moments of brightness and hope. At Strength in Heart Counselling, we understand that the path to healing is a journey with ups and downs. Embrace both the dark and light sides of yourself and acknowledge that they make you who you are.


This Halloween season, don't forget to prioritize your mental health. Unmask your inner demons and seek the support you deserve. Strength in Heart Counselling is here to help you confront your fears, heal your past, and cultivate a sense of empowerment. Just like the heroes in our favorite Halloween stories, you have the strength within you to conquer your inner demons and emerge as a more resilient, empowered, and authentic version of yourself. Happy Halloween, and remember that the scariest journey can be the most rewarding one.